Monday, December 31, 2007

If All You Want Out of Your Life Work is Money Read Something Else

 

There are a huge number of books out there that profess to help make you rich. Some of them have even actually helped a few of their readers. Mostly they have helped the author. Note:  One of the first lessons about being an entrepreneur is to be a seller when the public is buying.

This is a daily blog that will run for months or even years. Books or blogs that actually help you obtain a good life are rare. Most of the people who can tell you how to get that good a life are too busy being happy to write a book or even a blog. Aren't you lucky that I happen to have a little free time right now?

The heart of the matter is defining by what you want out of your work life.  Think about these questions for a moment:

  • Do you approach it with energy enthusiasm and hope?
  • Do you have goals that take you toward greater success and enjoyment in your work and your personal life?
  • Are you doing something that makes it hard to leave your job after a long day?

If you do not love your work, and most people do not, you are normal enough to probably be boring. Another Note: When my wife met me she told me that if I ever bored her she would be out of here! Now she prays for boredom -- daily.

ballons in the skyIf you don't answer yes to the three questions above you probably need to change something you are doing. You may need to change your job. You may just need to change your approach to your job. On the far side of reality you may even need to change your approach to life.

All of that fun stuff is difficult to accomplish. Change is hard, changing yourself is even harder. Ask any one year old how hard changing yourself is; they already know the answer. Of course you might have a little trouble understanding them, but they do know this much -- changing yourself is hard!

We all have a built in conservative that hates change. Change is also inevitable, just like death and taxes. Try not doing something, anything that you really like doing, for a whole week. Then try for the next week not to think about your failure or success at that effort. That experience should be enough to tell you how much of your life that inner conservative actually controls.

Yep!  Change is hard. Major change is even harder. Entrepreneurs learn to live and even thrive in a maelstrom of change; it is one of their most essential skills.

They may be crazy at the end of a life lived that way but it is often a happy kind of crazy.

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